Designed for people who have made finding love a priority.

Maybe you have realized that dating is not just about going through the motions, going on lots of dates or getting burned out on the whole dating process. It's about being ready for love and having the awareness and skills to create that in your life. Then our matchmaking 2.0 could be for you. It's probably the best cosmic dating service you never knew was available! 

The details: 

  • Personal wingmate team. Both of us do all sessions together with you - These can be in person or skype, depending on where you live. The added bonuses are getting both a male and female perspective, plus the two different backgrounds. You can read more about Chris and Kendra's credentials and story here.  
  • 3 mths of coaching sessions. (6-8) up to 90 minute sessions each [depending on what we're doing that day] and are scheduled throughout the 3 month program. 
  • Unlimited quick texts and email support. Always feel free to ask questions, get support, or celebrate things that come up in between sessions.
  • Feeling Vision session. Our first session is all about us getting clear and helping you to get even more clear on your vision for your ideal partnership.
  • Somatic, creative, and evidence-based processes + interventions. Our sessions can include: process-oriented movement, dream-time movement practice, visualization, meditation, boundaries and attachment work, gestalt techniques, journaling, expressive art, sounding, and more. We promise we won't make you do anything though! 
  • Holistic view of you. We won't pathologize or diagnose you regarding relationship. Rather, we'll look at the full picture of you to enhance what's feeling good, clear blocks, and nourish where needed. Areas we can include: thoughts, dreams, nutrition, body image, posture / alignment, sexuality, intimacy, attention, creative outlets, movement, friendships, family relationships, habits, work environment and business strategies, home environment, and more. Sometimes one or more of these areas can be an unexpected doorway to your love life!
  • Weekly assignment. The three of us will co-create a home practice that integrates the session and has the following qualities: [a.] somewhat edgy [b.] you're totally willing and able to do it [c.] you have accountability planned with either us or another support person or group. 
  • Update or create online dating profile. We've mastered the ability to guide the process of accentuates who you are in words that will resonate with your soulmate.
  • Professional photo shoots. We'll do at least one photo shoot and several additional photos throughout the program. Here, we create a totally no-pressure, fun, and confidence-building experience that results in photos that really show off your personality.
  • Image consulting. [Optional] help in going through any clothes that you've outgrown and shopping for ones that feel more like who you are now. 
  • Video spotlight. [Optional] creation of a short video showcasing you speaking + moving. This offers a fuller sense of your vibe than just photos and words. 
  • Discounts and Free attendance to online and live events. We'll warmly welcome you to any of our events at no additional cost [receive exclusive discounts to workshops that are 3+ hours and retreats]
  • VIP Matchmaker Club member- We will proactively be looking for and sending you on vetted dates. You can read about our unique matchmaking process below.
I was so jaded about dating. Their process cleared so many blocks!
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They found my soulmate in the first two months, so we used the remaining time for coaching around communication skills and making our sex life the best I’ve ever had!
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Our Matchmaking Process

  • It's all co-creative meaning we work with you to decide which options below are best suited to you. 
  • We vet potential matches within our own daterbase. As people continually join our daterbase, we'll be setting up introductions we feel are good match for you.
  • We vet potential matches using a third-party online dating platform as an optional component. Besides our own daterbase - we'll also use your online dating profile to sort and filter potential matches [we whole-heartedly recommend OkCupid] that way we are not limited by the size of our pool. They are then vetted before introducing you. 
  • We reach out to friends and people in your local community. As social beings ourselves, we're always networking. No matter where you live, we will connect with anyone from friends to local matchmakers to get personal referrals for potential matches.
  • Online dating concierge service. We personally connect with potential matches to set up dates for you.
  • Post-date feedback. Never leave a date wondering. We will gather and relay helpful feedback from you and your date so that everyone is evolving more and more.
  • Quality over quantity. We will never set a quota and send you on dates just to meet that quota. We truly aim to connect as much as we can with someone to make sure they are a highly worthwhile person for you to meet.



Watch the video to hear a testimonial.

UPDATE: We successfully found Cary's soulmate! We'll be updating this interview soon to share their beautiful, magical love story that will hopefully inspire you to know that love is totally possible for you too!